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If you’re unsure as to whether or not you’re celebrating Valentine’s Day, but don’t want to risk upsetting the person you’re dating by giving them nothing, just pick up something small and simple.
Think a card, a bunch of flowers, or a box of chocolates.
Shes a starbucks lover, so gift card to starbucks was one idea, stuffed animal was another, lingere is possible as well. Esp from you ladies, if you recently met someone, found a connection to him and am interested, but at the same time want to take things slow.... It's not as much about the gift as it is about paying attention. Had her over for late lunch/early dinner yesturday, cooked basil pesto stuffed pork chops for her.
what would you find to be a something that brought a smile to your face? Done the nice dinner at a nice place with her Sat night.
Rules you can refer back to in case you and the person you’re kind of, sort of seeing have a mismatch in Valentine’s Day expectations and actions. Any less time than that, and you’re probably rushing into V Day romance too quickly.
And secondly, because if you didn’t exchange gifts over Christmas, you haven’t yet hit the gift-exchanging stage.
‘But if you’re taking it slow and seeing how things go, then you might want to give a light-hearted nod towards Valentine’s Day – a jokingly cheesy card or a chocolate heart.’ Essentially, if you and the person you’re dating have been super mushy and romantic from the get-go, you’ll probably want to do something for Valentine’s Day.
If you’ve been keeping it casual, haven’t said the L word, and haven’t organised any romantic gestures, it’d be a bit weird to suddenly make a huge effort for Valentine’s Day.
I could do something like strawberries or the truffles someone mentioned. Doesnt matter where, as long as your reason is good and sweet You could take her to a restaurant, to the zoo, central park it doesnt matter. Because that way she isn't spending Valentine's day alone.
It’s an easy way to figure out the Valentine’s Day conundrum, basically, with a simple, black and white rule. Project Love’s Selina Barker reckons Valentine’s Day celebrations all depend on how the new relationship is going.
‘If you’ve fallen for one another in a big way and you both know it, then you might love the opportunity to spend a day celebrating your new-found love,’ Selina told us.
Anything from an adult shop would make me feel uncomfertable if I just met someone! I don't even like flowers, but then everyone she works with will see that you sent them. Kind of depends on where you are in life/where she is. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.
Btw : pillows, stuffed animals and blankets are never a bad idea unlesss she has astma. If everyone around her is going all out, and she seems like the type who would expect that, you should do that, too.