Do your daughter dating older man
Forbidding a teen to do something is courting trouble and is the quickest way to invite sneakiness and lies.
And if this is the case, you still have a choice between abdicating responsibility (and saying nothing) and taking the full nuclear option of demanding they not see each other.We have met him twice when he has been over for dinner. Tell him you don't agree with the situation but you will trust your daughter in her decisions.I just felt like he was taking advantage of my daughter. It did not make me feel any better about the situation. BUT explain to him firmly disrespecting her (the oral situation) and how he speaks to her is not tolerated.The more you protest or show disapproval, the more she'll dig in - at least in my experience.Let her know you dislike the age gap (and for God's sake, don't mention race!