Dating man test woman
”A woman’s insecurity and a man’s ability to tend to it appropriately is the foundation of a relationship’s success.If you get a woman with a stronger foundation, you will have less work, but there is no foundation that doesn’t require any maintenance at all. The only appropriate response to a shit test is to dismiss it. You should not taking responsibility in any way (the cause or the solution) for her inner conflict.Another woman might lust after one man, be attracted to a second, and feel comfortable and attached to her partner only.These differences in who we lust after, are attracted to, and feel an attachment towards, arise because each feeling has an independent origin.If you respond to the shit test in any way, if you attempt to answer or repair the shit test in any way, you have failed.
They are a result of our biology clashing with culture, the misinformation spread to women and it is foremost a result of our personal hormonal cocktail.
They complain about the men they call "nice guy, push-over" types, who don't stir passionate feelings. Personally, I would like to offer an alternative hypothesis—one where women have been put in a very unfulfilling double-bind.
They also have difficulty with men they label attractive "jerks", who disrespect them, ignore their needs, and break hearts. I would like to posit that cultural and biological factors have been pitted at odds, leaving women in a "no win situation" most of the time in modern life.
When you “answer” her shit test, you are acknowledging that there is a crack in the foundation.
If you acknowledge the crack then you are liable to be responsible for it. If she feels fat enough to ask then your answer is contradicting her feeling.
So, when we are attached to a man we admire or need, we see him as both the cause and solution to our problems. Our biggest problem is our internal conflict of wanting to feel safe and secure but being biologically insecure on some level. And like the symptoms of a disease, you can treat the symptoms for temporary relief but if you never address the underlying cause, you will eventually die.