Break up after dating 4 months
“When you get excited about new possibilities and meeting new people, you’re ready,” Winter told INSIDER.That said, there’s a difference between being genuinely excited to meet someone new and feeling a need to go out with people just because you want something to distract you from your ex.It seemed like she went into the conversation determined to end things and I wasn't going to jump on a pity offering that could have come out of weakness at the time.In order to give you a full understanding about things, here are a few more points that I feel I should add to the conversation:- There was definitely a great physical connection between us.You can see facial expressions and body language on someone else that just can't be faked sometimes, and I saw this on her whenever we were intimate together.- Believe it or not, our three month experience was the longest relationship she's ever had.The Sunday before yesterday, she was on her way back from a weekend spent away (family commitment) and I got a text from her asking if I was free to meet for a talk the following night. As it turned out, I couldn't meet until the night after and we agreed to do that.
We had so many things in common and a great physical connection.“If it was a more significant relationship then they may take longer, like three months or more to start dating again.” Still, you don’t need to get hung up on a particular deadline.As long as you’re giving yourself enough time to effectively evaluate your emotions to ensure you aren’t hurting other people on your post-breakup recovery path, you should be fine. “Some breakups can level you to the ground, and others can be processed within a matter of days or weeks.Instead, it’s best to try and give yourself as long as it takes to come to terms with whatever residual feelings (positive and negative) you have about your ex.“If you’re still in pain, obsessing about your ex, or suffering from emotional whiplash, you’re not ready to date,” Winter told INSIDER.
These weekends spent out of town prevented us from being able to see each other most weekends.